Why Ashton Kutcher is So Worked Up About Public Bathrooms
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Two weeks ago, Ashton Kutcher made news for publicly venting about the lack of baby changing tables in men's restrooms, and now he's doing something about it. The proud father recently launched a Change.org petition, which has garnered more than 90,000 supporters, asking Costco and Target to install "universally accessible changing tables in their stores."
"As a new dad, I recently learned an unfortunate reality about changing diapers while out in public with a child," Kutcher wrote. "Almost all public changing tables are in women's bathrooms, which makes it nearly impossible to find a table that's accessible to dads. As crazy as it sounds, many stores don’t give dads the option to change their babies’ diapers. It's 2015, families are diverse, and it is an injustice to assume it’s only a woman's job to handle changing diapers. This assumption is gender stereotyping and companies should be supporting all parents that shop at their stores equally – no matter their gender."
Because Kutcher considers Target and Costco to be companies that "honor diversity, support families, and provide great services to kids of all ages," he called upon them to rectify the "legacy of gender discrimination" in our country by providing this resource to all. He's also confident that other businesses will do the same if Target and Costco make the first move.
Target responded to Kutcher's initiative by saying that their men's bathrooms already have changing tables:
"As you've noted, at Target we are absolutely committed to creating a family-friendly environment and accommodating the needs of our guests," Molly Snyder of Target Public Relations wrote in a statement. "For the convenience of all of our guests, we have made changing tables a standard feature in both our men’s and women’s restrooms for more than 25 years. In addition, as we build new stores, we place changing tables in our women's, men's and family restrooms. In the event a changing table is unavailable, we encourage our guests to notify a team member and we will be happy to offer an alternative private location to meet their needs."
How others responded
Though Kutcher obviously received overwhelming support, he did have some detractors in the petitions comments section, with one fellow dad chiming in, "I'm a father who changed my boys diapers many times while out running errands, and most stores didn't have a changing station. But somehow I got the job done, generally going out to the car to perform the dirty deed."
Anytime a celebrity attempts to enact social change, there's inevitably a backlash from those who say wealthy A-listers have no business trying to relate to regular folks, but the massive support for Kutcher's petition shows it's something that resonates with people all over. Babies don't care if you're famous: when they need to be changed, they need to be changed.
Kutcher said in an interview with A Plus that he hopes the public restroom situation improves by the time his little girl is old enough to fully understand it, "I would like my daughter to experience a world where gender doesn't dictate one's responsibility or limit one's opportunity. Having changing tables in men's rooms is just a tiny step in the process of rectifying legacy gender discrimination. Men who are aware of this bias want to participate equally in the child care process and our society should support that. It's time to get our hands dirty."
How politicians have tackled this issue before
Last year, California Governor Jerry Brown barred two bills that would have made changing tables more accessible in public men's restrooms. The measures were widely praised in the Senate and Assembly chambers and would have adjusted current state regulations so public places like malls and movie theaters would have to include changing areas in the women and men's rooms.
Now that a well-known public figure has drawn attention to this issue, perhaps improvements will be on the way before long.